Here’s a shocker: none of us has failed to fail at times.
We’ve all screwed things up on occasion, and I’m no exception. And that’s especially true when it comes to managing others, which I believe is very much a learned skill. In that spirit, there are a number of things about people management (call them reminders, admonitions, lessons) that I’d especially want to tell my younger self if I had a time machine. Each one arises from a situation where I’ve learned a lesson the hard way over the years, either from mishandling something myself, or from watching a peer, colleague, or my own manager mishandle it. As the saying goes, “Good judgment comes from experience; experience comes from bad judgment.”
So here are a few things to keep in mind when managing others. These lessons have arisen from (largely) IT situations, but their scope and impact is hardly limited to IT. They’ve become a capsule summary of how I want to manage, and how I like to see people around me manage others. In fact, when I encounter an instance of “bad management”, or think back on my own missteps, I can almost always point to a deficiency in one or more of these specific areas as the underlying root cause.In no particular order: